The Jaipur Literature Festival on Saturday witnessed an engaging conversation between author and Rajya Sabha MP Sudha Murty and her daughter Akshata Murty, with former UK Prime Minister Rishi Sunak and Infosys co-founder Narayana Murthy present in the audience. The discussion explored their relationship, shared values, and perspectives on parenting and life.
Reflecting on balancing work and raising children, Sudha Murty recalled her upbringing, saying, “My father was a doctor, and for him, the hospital was a temple. I learnt from him how to be dedicated to work.”
She also emphasised the importance of instilling values in children, saying, “I too once left my work to give time to my children. A mother must teach moral values to her children.” Akshata agreed, adding, “Two things cannot be done simultaneously, so parents should prioritise their children.”
Acknowledging the support of her husband Narayana Murthy in her journey, Sudha Murty said, “Behind a successful woman, there is a wise man. My husband always supported me and helped me move forward.”
Akshata, in turn, expressed gratitude to her parents, saying, “You and Papa have been my role models. Both of you have always supported each other.”
Sudha Murty responded warmly, telling her daughter, “I always wanted my children to be good citizens. One day, you will also see a time when your husband and children will be proud of you.”
During the discussion, Sudha Murty shared her thoughts on life and integrity.
“I am an idealist even at the age of 74. I taught my children that first, you have to be a good person. Keep your heart clean. Say what you believe and do what you say. Only then can you live a good life.”
She also spoke about her connection to India, stating, “I am from India and work in India. I go to London because of my grandchildren. Beyond that, I have nothing to do with foreign countries.”
Offering advice to parents, she urged them to move beyond excessive competition and encourage cooperation among children. “Parents and elderly people always tell their children to study hard and get good marks. If a neighbour’s child scores better, the mother goes into depression. But we have to teach children that this is life, not a three-hour movie,” she said.
She also emphasised the need to reduce screen time for both parents and children, saying, “Take children out of the world of mobile phones, but first, step out of it yourself.”